Ladies and Gentlemen!!

My laptop is HERE!!!!! OMG, I'm blogging right now out the sheer excitement of being able to dom it from the comfort of my bed...*ELATION*

Aside from coming home to a brand new early christmas gift laptop...my day sucked musty swamp balls. I was at work today from 9:30 AM to 10pm. Totally and UTTERLY ridiculous....smh.

I SOOOOO need a career change...ok wait scratch that...not career...ENVIROMENT. I LOVE what I do, just not WHERE I'm doing it at...

I really feel baked honestly...and on top of that i've got the cold from hell...smh.

My nose, throat, eyes, everything...is pretty much out of commission right now. So tack that on to a gay ass work day and there u have it...My mood suuuuuuuuuuuuuuucked b4 i got home...

So now I'm happily typing under my blanket...

"sigh...just when u think life SUCKS something pops up to remind you its really not so bad...

(Sheesh I feel so very Sex & the City right now...lol)

Ok Carrie Bradshaw moment over....

Over and out kids!
Peace...

Dont know if this is real...

But...I found it...traveling the web (again)...And its eerily interesting...kinda sad, but something about it...I dunno...

Its a mummy...of a little girl that died at age 5. Her mother had her mummified to preserve her. This mummy is apparently over 80 years old and still in display in an Italian temple...

I posted it...well basically because something about it made me want to....




like I said...its kinda sad...But...I couldn't stop looking at it for some reason... (Not sorry if you find it kinda creepy.. its MY blog...)

Peace.

Angels...

So I'm at work today...and the oddest...almost creepy looking old man comes up to me. I was sitting at the front desk computer. So he kind a peers over the counter at me, and he's got both hands behind his back. I'm automatically weirded out...but I wasn't at work alone so I played it cool.

I said Hi, how are you? and he replied, I'm fine how are you? So I said I"m OK...And he starts smiling...
So of course in my head I'm like wtf...?

So he goes..."I see Christ in your eyes"
So I was like...wow...well thank you.
So he goes..."I'm a minister..."

So then I relaxed a lil...lol

So He was like..."He's in your eyes...Its shining...and its beautiful..."

I really didn't even know how to respond...But I smiled and told him thank you very much...

So he looked back at me one more time smiling and walked away....

Weird...But...real...deep. Cuz at that moment, before he walked up...I was PISSED...(work crap)...
His timing was on point...

But I was reminded of the bible verse saying something about entertaining angels...so i had to come home and look it up...


Hebrews 13:2

"Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by this some have entertained angels without knowing it."

Angel maybe? Or just a nice old man...I dunno...but he made my night....

Peace.

Continued...

From my Beauty Vs. Sexy Blog... I actually had a convo with JSW (<3)> about the whole issue and I'm gonna post our convo...Well the parts pertaining to the topic, lol. I found his response kinda interesting, so here goes...(Names have been changed to protect the innocent...lol)



ME: And if u get around to it, I'm curious (and yes there's a reason behind it) what women can u think of that you find beautiful? Not cute, not sexy, not just pretty....but beautiful ------------------------ 1:12 pm ------------------------

HIM: That's a hard question to answer ------------------------ 1:15 pm ------------------------

ME: I know

ME: Thts why im askin ------------------------ 1:20 pm ------------------------

ME: Im curious about what u find beautiful

HIM: You ever seen the movie the home of the brave?

ME: No ------------------------ 1:22 pm ------------------------

ME: I can look it up though, what about it ------------------------ 1:27 pm ------------------------

HIM: Samuel l jacksons wife in the movie

HIM: Is a beautiful woman

HIM: She is older but you will get the idea

ME: Ok

ME: Lemmie look ------------------------ 1:31 pm ------------------------

ME: Victoria Rowell

ME: Ok

ME: Can u think of any others?

ME: And what do u think is the diff between beautiful and just pretty?

HIM: What do u think of her

ME: She's pretty

HIM: Pretty can be done at a moments notice

HIM: Beauty lasts throughout the ages ------------------------ 1:39 pm ------------------------

HIM: Lisa raye ------------------------ 1:41 pm ------------------------

HIM: Alicia keys ------------------------ 1:44 pm ------------------------

ME: Gotcha

HIM: That makes sense ------------------------ 1:46 pm ------------------------

ME: ok now the difference between beautiful and sexy... ------------------------ 2:05 pm ------------------------

HIM: Huh?

ME: What do u think the difference is...I mean u can be sexy but not beautiful ------------------------ 2:24 pm ------------------------

HIM: Sexy is more of looks and the way u dress and how u interact

HIM: Jada pinkett was sexy

ME: Was?

ME: Lol

HIM: Yeah was

ME: She's not anymore?

HIM: She don't have that sex appeal anymore

ME: Hmmmm

ME: Ok

ME: So who do u think is sexy?

HIM: Keri hilson

HIM: Hands down like six thirty

ME: Really?

HIM: Yeah

ME: Ok

HIM: She is cute not pretty

HIM: But she is sexy

ME: Gotcha

HIM: Lisa raye is beautiful and sexy

ME: True ------------------------ 2:33 pm ------------------------

HIM: Tamia

HIM: Pam from total was sexy

ME: True

HIM: Mc lyte is pretty age seems not to affect her

HIM: Angela basset is on her own level

ME: True again ------------------------ 2:38 pm ------------------------

ME: So if u had to choose one you'd take sexy over beautiful?

HIM: Beautiful

HIM: Sex appeal can fade like I said beauty lasts over ages

ME: You did say that...ok

ME: Makes sense ------------------------ 2:47 pm ------------------------

HIM: Love u ------------------------ 2:49 pm ------------------------

ME: Love u too







Ok so that was the convo...Sexy can fade...Beauty will last...i liked that concept. So yeah...I heart him...



Deuces!

As a girl...

I ADORE making myself feel sexy...I LIVE for it...

I don't like to be cute JUST for my man...but i like walking past a mirror and being like..."shyt I'm sexy!"

Lol...(I'm truly not this conceited) I DO truly believe in women doing things just for THEM though...

If painting ur toes naked will make u feel sexy...do it!
If vacuuming in booty shots will make u feel sexy...do it!
If taking a bubble bath and letting yourself air dry across the bed will make u feel sexy...do it!!

Today I'm investing in a different pair of "heels" to add to my ever expanding closet...




I feel like every woman should own a pair...Wear em while you do the dishes, or cook dinner, wear em while you type at the PC, or do laundry...

Trust me it'll do WONDERS for preserving your sexy... *wink*

Peace

Beautiful or Sexy...

OK so my off days have become my major blogging days until i get my laptop, so these are the day's you'll see multiple posts from me only because I have so many thoughts running through my head I have to type what I can as i remember it.

But this topic really just came to mind as I was watching TV. I'm always curious about the definitions of true "Beauty" vs. Sex Appeal" I talk with Pammy alot about "Fine" vs. "Sexy" as far as men are concerned all the time...and I'm aware that you don't have to be fine as hell to be sexy as all get out. Sexiness is something you exude in my opinion. But I'm always looking for the input of others...

So onto the topic...It started with a Cassie video I was watching...("Official Girl") Now to me she's you're stereotypical "Video Girl" but to me she's not specifically "pretty". Then you have someone like Beyonce who..I'm not the HUGEST fan of (don't get me wrong she's talented as hell) but she's cool...She BEAUTIFUL though...

So what falls into the category of sexy, and what categorizes beauty...can u be both beautiful and sexy? (I say yes)

I'm going to post some images with this blog...

First women I find beautiful...Then women I think exude sexiness...

And lastly that rare breed that has BOTH!...

Enjoy...But I"m really curious...Whats the preference...beauty or sex appeal?

Now onto Sexiness....













Now the rare hybrid that seems to have BOTH of these on lock...













I could probably come up with a couple more examples...but I'm tired of searching images...lol

So enjoy the eye candy...and If i missed any let me know (I'm sure i did) And if u have your own opinions on this topic...feel free to share em...I may even do one of these on some sexy ass men later on...

Deuces!!

Ho-Ho-Hum..

Is it just me or are holidays getting more and more blah? Maybe its because of the recession we're in right now, but I've never been HUGE on the whole "Holiday's" thing...



This year specifically people just don't see "happy"...I see more stressed looks on faces this year...not as many shopping bags walking through the malls...Its just and overall "quietness" (is that a word??)



I mean Thanksgiving for me was never major...I don't have a HUGE immediate family...my extended family could go on forever but that's a whole 'nother blog. Plus...I don't even like turkey, and the pretense of "let's all gather together and play family for 1 day" seems so phony and forced to me"



Now as far as Christmas..I LOVE receiving gifts...and I can truly say I love shopping for other people even more...(Granted I also know that this isn't what Christmas is actually ABOUT...but I'm not gonna get all deep and philosophical right now)



I tend to like Christmas a little more than Thanksgiving, and New Years can be cool depending on how I'm spending it...but in general...it just seems like a lot of "keeping up appearances". And doing that this year with the economy being what it is just has people walking around so stressed...it's all over their faces....



But thanksgiving is this week and I truly do have ALOT to be thankful for....I could list it for you but I just don't feel the need. I"m happy overall and that's enough.



So with that said...(and I hope I didn't sound like a big ole Grinch)



Enjoy the holiday's everyone...



Toodles...