Hater...

Hater

By: Maya Angelou

A hater is someone who is jealous and envious and spends all their time trying to make you look small so they can look tall.
They are very negative people to say the least. Nothing is ever good enough!
When you make your mark, you will always attract some haters…
That’s why you have to be careful with whom you share your blessings and your dreams, because some folk can’t handle seeing you blessed…
It’s dangerous to be like somebody else… If God wanted you to be like somebody else, He would have given you what He gave them! Right?
You never know what people have gone through to get what they have…
The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory, but they don’t know my story…
If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, you can rest assured that the water bill is higher there too!
We’ve all got some haters among us!
Some people envy you because you can:
a) Have a relationship with God
b) Light up a room when you walk in
c) Start your own business
d) Tell a man / woman to hit the curb (if he / she isn’t about the right thing)
e) Raise your children without both parents being in the home

Haters can’t stand to see you happy.
Haters will never want to see you succeed.
Most of our haters are people who are supposed to be on our side.
How do you handle your undercover haters?

You can handle these haters by:
1. Knowing who you are & who your true friends are *(VERY IMPORTANT!!)

2. Having a purpose to your life: Purpose does not mean having a job. You can have a job and still be unfulfilled. A purpose is having a clear sense of what God has called you to be. Your purpose is not defined by what others think about you.

3. By remembering what you have is by divine prerogative and not human manipulation.

Fulfill your dreams! You only have one life to live…when its your time to leave this earth, you ‘want’ to be able to say, ‘I’ve lived my life and fulfilled ‘my’ dreams,… Now I’m ready to go HOME!

When God gives you favor, you can tell your haters, ‘Don’t look at me…Look at Who is in charge of me…

I came across this on tumblr and I read alot of Maya Angelou so I dont know how I missed this one. But it was RIGHT ON TIME....I needed it.

Peace...

It Started off with a kiss...

Words can't explain how knee weakening a good passionate kiss is. I LOVE kissing...L-O-V-E it...Truthfully I cant even have sex with u, we wont even get that far if you cant kiss me the right way. But i think I may have touched on this blog wise already...or maybe I'm thinkin of an actual conversation I had but either way...I can't say enough about the right kiss...Some of my most memorable ones were at night...But everyone has that one person or one kiss thats soooo memorable that you can recall it like it was yesterday...still give u chills...We me at least. "sigh...Slow, sweet, those unexpected ones that catch you off guard and last endlessly...The ones where it seems like everything around u has stopped...Arms around my waist or on my hips...I'm soooooooo zoning out on memories...

The quick little stolen ones on the street at a red light...In truth if you can't kiss me where I get chills, buttlerflies, weak knees,...we truly may not work out. Thats being 100% honest with u, theyre that major for me...well the good ones. I want to here some good kiss stories...leave me some...

But one my travels through the web I found this article on kissing...it was interesting...So enjoy...

All Over kiss
Starting at your partner's forehead, make your way down as softly and sensually as possible. You want to gently caress the skin using only your lips. Ultimately, this kiss relies on your imagination so go wherever your lips and his/her body takes you...

Back kiss
Undress your partner – this act in itself is bound to get both of your pulses racing – and have them lie face down. Start kissing from the back of their neck down to their buttocks, while simultaneously running your tongue across it and breathing really heavily. The hot/cold sensation will make your partner squeal in delight!

Belly-button kiss
One of our most erotic zones has got to be the navel – it tickles, it's sensitive and oh-so divine. Turn your partner on instantly with a gentle, lingering kiss on her belly.

Earlobe kiss
Prepare to drive your partner up the wall with excitement. This kiss is simple and because the skin around the ear is so sensitive, even a gentle suck will do.

Finger kiss
It's not as dirrrty as it sounds. Promise. The finger kiss is actually quite seductive and pleasurable. Simply suck on your partner's fingers while holding eye-contact. Pure bliss, I tell you...

Foot kiss
After a romantic bath together, massage your partner's feet. If sucking is too much for you, then simply kiss the tips of the toes. Remember that some parts of the foot may be more sensitive than others, but if your partner is completely relaxed, there's no reason for them not to enjoy it!

French kiss
Thought we forgot about it? Nuh uh. The French kiss is the most popular kiss and for those of you living in a cave, just know that it involves a bit of tongue. Yummy...

Fruity kiss
Yes, you guessed it. How it's done? Place a slice of apple (or any other fruit) between your lips and move in for a kiss. Nibble, smile and allow the juice to run into your mouths.

Ice kiss
With a cube of ice in your mouth, start kissing your partner on the lips. Gently pass the ice back and forth until the ice is completely melted, then move down to the neck area. The cold of your tongue against the warmth of your partner's body is an exhilarating contrast. For both of you.

Tongue kiss
While Frenching your partner, gently suck on their tongue.

And there you have it – the ultimate kissing guide to kissing

...and here are some of my personal favs.

Lips..Duh

Neck ...but very softly..

Cheek/Forehead...they're so sweet...

Can't tell u the rest...but DAMMIT now I wanna be kissed......

peace...

Double or Nothing...

Earth shaking when you realize you've lost your chance huh? Life lesson's learned I guess...but it stings no less...

Double or Nothing...





Gotta love happy endings...Even when they aren't your own...(just wish it didn't sting so bad...)

It started of with a kiss...

Never expected this...And now I'm here copping with..My Addiciton. (He's My Addiciton)
"sigh...





It does all start with a kiss, amazing to me how much can be conveyed through a kiss. To me its much more intimate/personal than sex.






And to me..that's the first thing to go in a relationship. When u loose the kiss...it's time to sit up and take notice...




I"m a sucker for a good one, and there's so many components that make it...breath taking. But if your kiss can make my knees buckle, and my heart flutter you're pretty much good to go...

If I have any male followers that wanna comment on some of their tips, tricks, techniques, to makin a lady weak in her knees...I'd love to hear them.


Ladies if theres something a guy does that you know gets you everytime...let me know ;-)

Cuz to me the mark of a good kisser is one that knows a GOOD one involves more than just the kiss itself...The placement of the hands, the breathing, the strength of the grip, knowing when to let her, go and knowing when to pull her closer...yeah.





Got myself reminiscing now...

;-)

DEUCES!!