His and Hers...

Shawty play the piano me I play the white keys,
Shawty from the south, oh, i think she like me,
Shawty like Pac, me Big Poppa,
screaming hit em up, I’m screaming who shot ya,
I’m on that red wine, shawty like white,
same sh-t different toilet,
we both getting nice,
me I’m from the apple which means I’m the Mac,
She’s a PC, she lives in my lap.

How fly would it be....for you an me...

...to match like this...

He match my fly...SO sexy...I'd LOVE to roll out on some grown shit with my man. Or truthfully even on some casual lounge flow. Wrists matchin YASSSSS!!...I can dream, and I'm really not a watch wearing chick...but these are fly. I remember waaaaaay back when Me and my dude at the time would do the matchin Timbs thing...(I'm from NYC don't judge me) This is on a whole 'nother (yes I said nother....and ya'll say it too eff u!) level...SO SEXY!

Peace.

Forever Young....

This was mad cute to me...I'm liking the Bey & Jay coupledom...this mad me smile though...




Plus I'm feeling the song...(plus It makes me smile when she kinda sings TO him...)

If I could sing like her...I'm be serenading my man upon request...lol

Soooo cute..."sigh.

Deuces.

WTF Momment of the week...

My dilemma is the pretty girl/wtf dude syndrome...

Case in point...



And...this





Now i know it's been questioned to death...But I cant help but wanna ask Lauren London...WHYYYYYYY?! I mean I had this convo at work with my boss and she said it may have something to do with confidence...Confidence is def sexy...But all the confidence in the world wont make me let Lil Wayne hit...and RAW too!?

LAUREN!!..."sigh...


2nd Case in point...

How does a girl like this...




Go from...this tackhead..





to THIS!...



Really Christina?!

I mean OK Lil Wayne is supposed to be mad funny in person,(but dude is up to HOW many kids now?) and Nick Cannon is supposed to be a really nice guy,(but he's lame as all hell...sorry) and the Dream is crazy talented (but he's another one with like 3 kids, ...that he seems to like stealing clothes from)...who gives a shit right this second...

I'm speakin from a totally shallow point of view. No looks aren't everything but shyt they do MATTER, ur a bloody LIE if u say they don't...

So I guess I just don't get it...Now don't get me wrong...this epidemic exists on the flipside too...so PLEASE don't get me started on posting dudes with some less than favorable chicks...

"sigh...As two chicks I find totally stunning I guess when they end up with dudes that make u say wtf...U gotta kinda scratch ur head...

I mean... at least Christina got a ring out of the whole situation...(Sorry New-New)

Deuces!

P.S - and I'm throwing this one in just because...




and...




Sorry Mr. Flame...

"Have an affair, act like an adult for once"...

Now before I get into this blog ( cuz it has the potential to get long) I just wanna say I don't endorse infidelity...I'm just playin "Devil's Advocate" on this topic. I've had a few convo's this week all separate and all on this topic and I found it pretty interesting...


The way of the world/our society is monogamy. 1 guy, 1 girl...yadda yadda etc etc...As u make the transition from "talkin" to "dating" to "that's my man/girl" to "wifey", to "engaged" to "married"...The monogamy requirement increases. My first question to my blog followers is...How realistic do u think this notion is? I mean before you answer that...Everyone knows that as people get older and grow they change as people. So keep that in mind as u respond.

My first convo on the topic was in NY with my boy...He's got a girl he's feelin pretty hard (though he doesn't wanna admit it) But He was kinda doin his own thing before he met her. You know how that goes. Anyhoo...He's slowing down a bit since he's feelin "the new chick" but he's had these on going "arrangements" prior to gettin with her. So his statement to me was..."I'm always gonna have those "arrangements" with said women, even if "new chick" became my girl.

So of course I was curious..

So you have an..."understanding" with these other women (2 to be exact) That it's not a relationship thing..it's really just a sexual "understanding". You'll have "new chick" at home. That's your main...but if one of ur "ahem..."understanding's" call...then its cool. No harm no foul. (to him)

Now he's not married, not engaged, really just dating/entering a relationship...But of course you KNOW "new chick" isn't aware of these "understanding's". And although I didn't ask, I'm sure the concept of her having some "understandings" of her own is out of the question...unless she keeps that to herself...lol

So moving on....Situation 2..My boy actually called and woke me up this morning cuz he said he had a question. So He was having a convo with the fellas and they were basically talkin about that point when u decide to propose. They said that since youre committing yourself to one 'ahem vagina for the rest of your life...all bets are off right up until the wedding. So basically they're saying...get all the ass u can get til you say "i do". Cuz once u say "i do" its a done deal...

Now this was also kinda interesting to me...My boy's question to me ...was "do women go on a spree of their own prior to the wedding" I told him in my opinion no...Once we decide we want to MARRY you, We don't view it as "one penis forever". (Well not ALL of us) Men view it was a life sentence, while women tend to view it more as a new beginning (in my opinion...)

So he was really like "wow" i thought both parties involved were going on (his words) "a fuckin spree" before the wedding...I was like um...no. Gross.

So he said ok, he was takin this info back to the fellas because according to him...they felt the women / brides-to-be were doin the same thing! and he's be callin me again later..( so there may be a part 2)


Now situation number 3 is from yet another convo....In a nutshell,(cuz this is gettin long) guy likes girl girl is kinda feelin guy...both are in "situations" as T.I put it lol. But neither care. Once again another "understanding" i guess...

So i guess I'm wondering how realistic the concept of "fidelity" is anymore. With so many "open marriages" arrangements" situations" etc etc it's seeming like the whole world is becoming alot more accepting of the "don't ask don't tell" approach to relationships.

Will & Jada are rumored to have one...and regardless of how much you dispute it, i think EVERYONE has a certain someone in their life...where...relationship or not...If THAT person wanted it....they could get it. I'm just sayin...



Now I do remember back in the day when I played those kinda games...(you all have so don't judge me). You know the stuff u see in old music videos...lol

You're out with ur dude and u see side dude...you give each other that "understanding" nod, cuz he's out with his chick too...

So many artists have written about this, (Alicia Key's "Mr. Man", Pleasure P "Boyfriend #2", Tweet "Call Me") I could go on...but u get me... so many videos depict this scene...just makes me wonder...

So feedback people...once again let me say ..I"m a HOPELESS romantic and kinda old school in alot of ways when it comes to relationships...so I'm just wondering...In this day and age am I the one who's out of touch...?

Deauces!

So Beautiful...

together...

You ever see couples even walking down the street...that just look good together and interact beautifully. Its almost like poetry sometimes....The stuff you see between 2 people when they don't know, or don't care that anyone's watching...

Natural Chemistry can't be forced...








And when you find that...someone...




Click!...that "SOMETHING"...u fight tooth and nail to hold on to it...(at least I know I would...)








I'm a HOPELESS romantic...







I live for that something...between 2 people. That "comfort" that "peace"...

Ok ok...

So I must be mad hormonal..or just in some kinda "zone" today...But I'm continuing from my previous blog...

But rather than type...I think I'm gonna just post...pictures are worth a thousand words...
























Peace...