Kinda Blue...

Tippin around the blogosphere and came across the beautiful Jhene's post about Blue...Makes me think of someone special...so I gotta credit her for the words, so here's part of it...but yeah...Blu's my favorite too...

Blue is my favorite color...

If' I'm feelin Blue,

Then I'm feelin Wonder-

Full of life like the sky and the ocean...

Blue is my favorite emotion...

You ever get so full of emotion, so full of living,so full of what you're, feeling, seeing, hearing, you want to cry ...

It's almost overwhelming to be able to FEEL like that, it's a blessing and a curse for me....

But today I'm definitely feeling the blessing end of it...reminds me that no matter what my hearts still beating,I'm still alive, still feeling...

Might not make sense...but maybe it's not supposed to...

The wind...

You ever stand still and just listen to the wind or the noise going on around you? I LOVE the elements, (someone just recently pointed that out to me) thunderstorms, breezy summer evenings,

sitting and watching the water...

But I think the wind is my favorite. I'm sitting here typing this with my windows open as it blows through my bedroom feeling calm. Calm enough to think,and blog, about whatever I got goin on in my head right now. I'm recently doing more moving around, (back to NYC at the end of May,and the to L.A at the end of June) in between all that working this whole career thing out...plus tryin my damnedest to get this fitness thing finally off and running..."sigh

But I'm starting to ramble..

My point is in the midst of all that movement, all that noise...all that wind. You need some "stillness" Everyone has that person that's that...constant in their life. That centering point, that calm.

So I guess this post will be for that person...That listens to me when I'm sure I make no sense, that knows how (even when I dont know how) to calm me...That center when everything around me is moving....

Theres a reason for every person that comes into your life, but even more reason for those that make their way into your heart, and stay there.

There's years of history, infinite trust, and unspoken understanding,respect and of course love...For that alone I consider myself lucky...even blessed.Friends (for me) are few and far between,and after all is said and done time hasn't shifted my "calm"...

My own personal security guard,super-hero, and so much more....and I'm sure he's going to read this.... ; -)

There are never enough "thank you"'s , never enough "I love you's" , and I'm glad I'm wise enough to recognize what I have...

I love the wind, but I need the balance,the quiet when I feel a lil lost....and I've got that.

My stillness....

Peace...

Say Aaahh...

What better way to say "good morning", Than to give some morning head... :-)

I follow alot of blogs and I found this one www.blogxilla.com (Check it out...pure hilarity)

I'm re-posting this one cuz frankly I loved it...lol.

27 Logical Reasons you Should Preform Oral Sex in the Morning.

More oral sex should take place in the morning. In a perfect world each day would start off with oral sex because after head, everything else is less important. Ladies imagine if instead of your alarm clock, your man woke you up to a tongue spanking. You won’t have to roll over and smack your hand against the snooze button, but instead you can grab the back of your guys head and press your lady parts against his mouth. Fellas imagine waking up to slurps and a wet crotch instead of that annoying buzzing! Wouldn’t that be great. So to all the couples out there and people who plan on waking up next to someone in the near future here is a list of reasons and things to say in order to get more oral sex in the morning.

• Vagina taste better after an evening marinating in last nights juices.
• Morning wood needs to be polished.
• After having an orgasm in someone’s mouth, your boss complaining doesn’t matter as much. You can just think, ‘hey asshole you obviously didn’t have what I had this morning so nanny nanny poo poo.’ Only don’t say that outloud becase you will lose your job.
• Semen helps kill gingivitis.
• You like having a smile on your face in the morning.
• While your deep in dream mode, your significant other becomes, Nicki Minaj, Trey Songz, or whoever it is you dream about and for a few brief moment it’s them giving you head and it seems oh so real.
• When you realize it’s the person you had sex with the night before it’s really not that bad of a constellation prize.
• Your dog shouldn’t be the only living thing in the house getting it’s crotch licked each morning.
• Wouldn’t we all like to be breakfast for once?
• After morning head, we can have morning sex.
• She can’t get pregnant if she takes it in her mouth.
• Why not wake up doing something you actually like doing?
• Because oral sex is better than oatmeal and just as clumpy
• It won’t be the first time she had something white and gooey in her mouth before noon.
• Vagina is the only thing that actually taste better than bacon.
• He can walk around smelling her on his upper lip all day long.
• I’m sure that is how Adam and Eve woke up before they ate the apple.
• Because we can
• Because it’s great.
• Because no matter how hard you try you really can’t think of a reason not to do it.
• A logical reason.
• It’s worth being late…
• If you tell your boss why you were late and send them a link to this blog you won’t get written up.
• Semen helps your skin glow.
• Vagina juice in the morning has the same amount of vitiman c as orange juice.
• Would you really rather have a day without oral sex in the morning?
• Because practice makes perfect.

Truth and Comedy...gotta love it!!

Deuces!!

I'll take "Blogging" for $100 Alex...

Ok so I come up with random ish to babble to ya'll abt all day everyday. But I neglect my blog so bad , cuz by the time I get home and by a pc, I've either forgotten what I was gonna blog (drugs are bad kids...) Or I've lost interest by then...So is there an app of something for blackberry that makes bloggin a lil easier...

A lil help please and thank u.

Deauces!

"sigh...

Ok so imma probably get stoned by all the Bey and Gaga stans for this one...But I saw the "Telephone" vid...and twitter, the web as a whole and mad blogs etc etc have been all buzzing about the vid. Callin it "amazing", "bananas", "sick", and most of all "epic"...I"m sorry but EPIC?! Was it really?

Now let me first say that I LOVE the Bey and Gaga "VideoPhone" vid, and I had never even HEARD this "Telephone" song til I saw the vid just this morning. Seems to me like Bey let Gaga drive when creating this one, just like "Videophone" looked more Bey to me, which makes sense....but I gotta be honest and say I just don't SEE what all the hype is/was about. Yes it's a cool vid, yes they both look good in it, yes they're both BEYOND talented, and can preform their asses off truth be told. But EPIC?! EPIC ppl!?

MJ's "Thriller" THAT was epic...and no I'm not even attempting to compare the 2 to the Late Great...But I'm gonna need someone to explain to my why this video is all this and that...Why all the hype? What am I missing...seriously...I'd like someone to help me out here.

Like I said...it was coolish, entertaining or whatever...I like the SONG much better than the vid personally...So I'll leave it there..

Let the opinions flow cuz the web is FULL of em...

Peace!

Tatt, tatt , tatted up...

I LOVE tatt's plain and simple...I'm attraaaaaaaaaaaaaacted to dudes with tatts no secret.

I been noticing more chick's gettin heavily tatted lately...I'm at a place in my life where I'm waaaaaaaaay past judgement. So to each his own, and truthfully I think chicks with dope tatts are the business!

Scroll down in my blog posts and peep the vid of Brittanya O'Campo for example...I'm not in a position career-wise where I can take the plunge but please belive if i coooooooooould....shoot!!

I'm including some pics I find hott...And since the question was posed to me I'm now posing it to you all, In a perfect world where, career, money and society made no diff. and what/where would you get tatted?

Yuuuuuuuuuuuup!!!

Dopeness, I'm attracted to art in every form...tatt's are no exception.

Enjoy the visuals...Peace.

Is it just me...?

Ever since I started wearing a bra...I've been overly...I guess conscious of my underwear...Weird right? Now ladies bra's have never been the most comfortable invention ever so I'm not referring to those. Trust me if I had small enough boobs I wouldnt even bother with one...But I digress...I'm not talking about bra's I'm talking about draws... Shutup..I know.

... in the past year or so its gotten almost...uncomfortable! I mean I wear underwear out the house don't get me wrong. But the moment I get home I haaaaas so come off. (TMI? get off the blog...)

I mean I had to get up and type this cuz I'm curious..Am I the only one with that issue? I mean I was on the phone with my boy earlier and literally had to put the phone down and go take my underwear off...As soon as I did i felt waaaaaaaaaaaay more comfy. Now keep in mind, I'm all about comfort versus cute in the draws dept to start with...So no I'm not layin around in g-strings/thongs/ etc etc...Gimmie boy shots any day of the week...But even those after a while need to go. I'm much more comfy as I am right now, in some sweatpants with nothing under them...

So I know alot of my followers are ladies...So gimmie ur input. Am i a weirdo? or do u guys have this issue too. Sharing is caring folks :)

"Sweat pants, no draws, chilling wit no makeup on"....buahahahahahahahahhahaha!!!!

Ok lemmie stop...

Deuces!!

Xmas Babbling...

In no specific order and for no specific reason, I'm just spittin out random shyt that's been runnin through my head.

Eager for 2010, I just have a FEELING about it...weird cuz I'm never way excited abt the new year...

BBM is sucks at life....

I'm a fascinating chick truly...But I'm weird abt people, mad hard to explain. I'm like...social, but not at the same time.

I have a big family but it feels like it's just me and my mom.

I've lost a couple good friends this year (they re not dead or anything we're just not tight anymore) and I'm ok with the natural order of things...Only actions i can control are my own...

I've had 3 diff dudes wanna marry me in '09...smdh. Lames. My "standards" are soooooooooooo....yeah. I have standards...high ones.

I drank Henn with my mom today in front of her fireplace and it was fab.

I'm biting my tongue alot less lately. It's both good and bad...bad for those who rub me the wrong way...good for my sanity.

I've painted my middle fingers silver as a form of silent protest...(yes bitch look at the SILVER nail!)

I'm obsessed with bangles, yet the sound of my own jangling today nearly drove me bananas...

"You are proof that God is good to man" is so far THE illest compliment Ive ever in life received...

"You're a PRETTY muthafucka" is by far the most "wtf" one ever tho ...

I'm slacking on my twitter..sometimes I feel like it's makin me dumber.

I'm DYING to just dress people for a living. Whatever direction the wind blows me I'll have to do something in which I can create.

My hands are blessed point blank.

I'm surrounded by too much talent to not be successful

Love is a 4 letter word...use with caution.

Elle and Evita are some INSPIRING chicks.

I cant decide if i like my hair better straight or curly.

I'm noticing true success is definitely fueled by who you know, more so than it is by raw talent...and that makes me a lil sad.

Sick of people biggin themselves up..Confidence is one thing, but if u are all u truly believe you are u don't have to broadcast it. Who u tryin to convince, me or u?

Refusing to buy myself a new purse til i can find one that screams "me". Eff a Louis, Gucci, Prada, etc etc etc...You look wack carryin that shyt if the rest of u is BEAT! Show me a bitch that can rock some shyt with no name in it and STILL make u ask her where she got it.

Second obsession to my bangles has become cocktail rings...

I TRULY enjoy buying stuff for other people even more than i do for myself.

I want to wax and then buff my entire body, so I'll be smooth and slick like a seal...lmaooooooooooo

I'm really only profane when I blog, weird the most i SAY is "damn, or hell".

I have like 4 diff types of alcohol in my fridge all at once. That's never happened b4

I want braces or veneers or something. I don't have buck teeth, but I want one of those perfectly straight white toothpaste chimerical smiles.

I HAVE to go to London in 2010.

I'm beginning to not like thongs at all anymore. I mean truthfully I don't wear underwear PERIOD if I'm home, but if i can help it when I'm out i def prefer boyshorts.

I'm very much pro comfort when it comes to everything i wear, but i'll sacrifice a pinky toe for some fire ass heels. I'm sorry it's a sickness...whats the pinky toe really doin anyway? Nothing...just hanging out.

I didn't like bright lipstick til i became a makeup artist...Well I'm kinda lying. I didnt like it on ME til i became a makeup artist. I swear I feel like some kind of ninjavampirevigilanteassasin when I wear my red lipstick.

I ADORE jazz.

My dream home is a brownstone.

Screw lingerie...sweatpants hair tied chillin with no makeup on...THAT'S when I'm the prettiest I hope that you don't take it wrong.

I got my sis and her chihuahua matching snuggies for xmas...don't judge me.

Shoooooooooooot IIIIII want a snuggie dammit.

Trying to figure out WHY my dog sheds but his hair's to short to be groomed...wtf is that abt?

Def need 1 more tattoo (at least)

Theres a blessing in ever lesson real talk...

I hate when people say "real talk"

I buy earrings ALL the time but somehow I can never find the right pair when I need them.

Fool me once shame on u, fool me twice...(yeah its a wrap)

I'm VERY capable of forgiveness, but i NEVER forget. And no i don't think u need to forget in order to move on...

I LOVE the fact that people seem to think my eyelashes are fake, lmaoooooo

I dont listen to ALOT of rap, but i LOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE a good cypha.

If i had one talent it'd be to sing, and if i had one super power it'd be to either fly or be invisible at will.

i NEED to see the world. (just trying to figure out how to get paid to do it.)

I want the new bb, but i suffer from waiting til my current phone is on its last damn legs b4 i upgrade...what can i say I'm loyal. lol

I have NO desire to be one of those chicks that can actively participate in sports convo's, scream at the tv, etc etc...I'm sorry I just don't CARE that much.

My fave color combo is pink and black, but I own like ONE pink and black thing. I'm actually noticing i have alot of purple or red things...

Maybe i just like bright shyt period

Ok im babbled out...well maybe not. I'm SURE I could go on...lol

Maybe i'll continue later on.

Merry Christmas lovies...Deuces!

FYI

I been slackin hard! I'm sorry...I'll be back to blogging as usual I promise. Don't hate me...lol

PEACE!

Swooooooooooon!!

My newest crush is Mr. Leslie..and honestly it's only 45% looks...Crazy right!

This dude is beyond talented...I'd sound like an uber stan if i went on about how utterly DOPE I find him...(Not to mention I'm feelin his fashion sense too) So tired of jeans and crap on men, but I digress... He's on HEAVY rotation on my ipod right now...I can't begin to explain how refreshing it is to have someone that still makes real music, and If i could get away with doing the poster taped to my wall thing still he'd be up there. His raw TALENT is what I'm finding so amazingly sexy , But since I can't (cuz I"m too grown for that lol) I've taken to my blog to blabber about him for 5 min...

If someone wants to set up a meeting for me with him I'm die happy..."sigh....Late Bday gift, Early x-mas gift, whatever...He's amazing musically though...Gotta see him live.














"sigh...Loves him!

Tag...I'm it...

My Favorite/My Permanent Security Guard/Original Human Pillow... Mr. Flame Has been awarded most fabulous/sexy/amazing/creative...or something lol, blog award. Check him out...

Buuuuuuuuuuuuuuut I got tagged in the midst of his lovely recognition...

So I'll do my duty and list 7 facts about myself...

Heeeeeeeeeeeeere goes...

1. I LOVE to be alone...but I HATE being lonely...

2. I HATE clowns...but Mimes are like 300 times worse.

3. I'm pretty sure I'll end up moving back to NYC sooner than later, but i still love ATL.

4. My ability to cut people completely out of my life is almost scary to me sometimes.

5. If I didn't have to CARRY a baby for 9 months, I'd have a child by now.

6. One of the things i miss most about NY is the city at night...

7. I'm just now realizing HOW attractive a well dressed man is to me...

...and cuz I'm a rebel imma list more than 7...

8. I STILL get a lil scared/paranoid after watching a GOOD scary movie

9. My attention span can be kinda short sometimes...

10. I don't have a ton of "girlfriends" (a-la Sex and the City) but sometimes I wish i did...

11. My fav color has changed like 3 times but it's always a diff shade of blue... ;-)

12. And i like having the one feature Mr. Flame still likes to get lost in. (you're smiling)


The end...


So I'm also not gonna tag 7 people cuz i just don't have 7 fav bloggers...but I am gonna tag a couple of my dolls...(If I didn't tag u and you wanna do it anyway...it's not like I'm God...lol, be my guest.)

1. RebELLEious
2.Punkie


Deuces!

......

"She said she'd prefer a broken neck to another broken heart...

But remember even the beauty of birth leaves it's own scars..."

Rebel Yell...

The Irony


Love won't set you free.
It will imprison you.

It won't give you wings to fly.
Instead it will captivate your entire existence.

Loving him will kill you slowly.
But without him you'd die.

They can tell you the fire is hot
But you'd rather burn than turn cold.


Written by Miss Rebellious...if you're not familiar with her blog please get familiar...She becoming one of my best sources for food for thought. Luvs her! Her words are dope...SERIOUSLY.

Deuces.

.....

"I'm a mirror...If you're cool with me, I'm cool with you, and the exchange starts.

What you see is what you reflect. If you don't like what you see, then you've done something.

If I'm standoffish that's because you are" ~ Jay-Z

The Pursuit of Happiness...

Sometimes I think thing's faster than I can get them out. I had thought up the whole first paragraph of this blog before I even turned the laptop on lol...

But that's not the point/topic.

Everyone is familiar with the phrase/concept of pursuing happiness...But when you sit back and look at your life and the way you're living it...Can u say honestly that that's what you're doing?


First what makes you happy? I read somewhere or heard somewhere that if you get a job doing something you love you'll never work a day in your life. That made me smile...I know what I love to do, I know where i want to be...But can I honestly say the day to day living of my life is pointing me in that direction? Sometimes I'm not sure.

What career path makes you happy? Are you working towards that?
Who makes you happy? Are You around that person?

It's real simple but kinda complex. Living your life can carry you at such a fast pace sometimes the "happiness" takes a backseat.

I know so many ppl that pursue the dollar..(I guess in hopes that money will make them happy)
I know ppl that will pursue a relationship in the hopes of that person loving them back...(which i guess will ultimately make them happy)

But i guess i kinda feel like happiness has to start within.
You gotta be happy with YOU before the other stuff will start to fall into place.

I've had money, that doesn't do it..I have love, that only does part of it. I have a passion and that contributes too...

But when I sit and say am I doing what makes me happy? I gotta stop and think about my answer.

Weird.

I mean look at Michael Jackson's recent passing. That man was on top of the world. A living legend for most of his life. Preforming since 5, dead at 50. Toured the world, millions on top of millions of fans, and up until recently more money than anyone could possibly conceive. I read a post that said "I think we enjoyed his music more than he did".

It struck me because before all his scandal's you'd assume he's got to be happy..he's got it all.

But watch any interview...there was such a sadness about him. I'm gettin sidetracked...but my point is as cliche as it sounds...Life is SO short, and you only get one shot at it.

If you're not makin yourself happy when seriously what are you doing? I don't want to grow older feeling like i haven't "lived". Feeling like there's so much more I could've done, or wishing I could do it over cuz I spent so much of it living for others, or living the way I thought I was supposed to...

I'm tired of "going through the motions"....and I'm working daily towards happiness...

Not money, not to please others...not to live my life any other way but for ME.

Peace.

P.S - Curious...what really makes you HAPPY?

Homie, Lover, Friend...

Ok after some thought and a convo I was having with "Him", I've come to realize that after a certain age the term "boyfriend" just sounds silly to me.

My boss (32) has a "boyfriend." One if my clients today (56)was at the studio tryin to take pics for her new "boyfriend".

Maybe it's the linking of the word "boy" in there when youre talkin about a grown ass man that ruins the sound of it for me.

I had a "boyfriend" in the 10th grade... :-/

Lol, i know this is all real silly (shut up) I'm just lookin for opinions ...I've heard "boo" "man" "dude"

Like i've said thats my man, (boo always rubbed me wrong) , I've said my dude...But when u get grown and it's deeper than "i like him" what do u say?

That's my "significant other"?

Lmaoooooooooooo...ugh! I"m open to suggestions for a word to replace "boyfriend"...lol

All ideas are welcomed.

Deuces!

"Niggas try to tell me her head was insane....."

OK...so head, blow jobs, oral sex,knob-slobbin and whatever colorful titles u have for doing it...it all means the same thing. Suckin Dick.




So what I"m wondering in 2009 (after a few convo's with a few friends...) is...Is this still taboo?!

I mean really?! IS it?! My boy even asked me jokin...are there still girls that don't give head?!

That's like looking for a unicorn...or is it?

Personally I'm grown and ashamed of NOTHING I do. Within the 4 walls of my relationship with a person I know I love. His pleasure is my priority...so all bets are off. Game ON when the lights go out. (or stay on whatever the preference....but I digress)

There are still women in 2009 that turn their noses up and give the "wtf ...eeww" face when the topic of head comes up. Quit actin like a kid!

Now A. If you'll let him lick you walls dry but wont return the favor ur selfish and trust that wont happen for too much longer.
And you'll be sitting there mad as hell...lol





B. If you've never done it , HOW do you know you don't like it?

C. (Assuming you're doing it right) Once you see the look on his face (or hear the sounds ur causing a grown man to make) How can u NOT wanna do something that'll make his toes curl?



Don't be a selfish lover is my point. Now granted...They're men...amazingly so that DON'T like head (yeah i know)So it's not for everyone clearly. And there are just as many women out there that just don't do it well/correctly. Therefore don't get the desired results, so they don't see the point. ALSO understandable.

I've heard everything from it "tasting bad" to "feelin nasty in your mouth" to "gaggin on it" If you're a novice no ones askin u to swallow or deep throat it or any of that. But a real man that know you're tryin to please him and are puttin his pleasure before your own will stop at NOTHING to make sure you're taken care of...TRUST!

(I'm not talkin any dude on the street, but your man...you know. The one that LOVES you.)


So my questions to my female readers is whats your viewpoint on head? Giving and receiving.

Gentlemen whats your view on women that don't "ahem...return the favor?

I have a co-worker that's 32 that has NEVER given head. But she's in love now...head over heels. And stated that with THIS man, she'll stop at nothing to please him. I give her credit for that.

Of course there are exceptions to this, so don't flood the comment board with dumb stuff like "well he doesn't do it back"

Use ur head ladies...(literally) lmaoooo.

Deuces!

Turmoil...

I have a weakness..It's becoming more and more apparent and it's got me feelin 9 million things at once. Love is one HELL of an emotion, believe me when I tell you. This is my third attempt at this blog and I'm gettin no where...but more and more twisted up as I type.

What do you do when you know what you want but I feels like it's juuuust out of your reach?

What do u do when the words don't come? And when they do, they sound all wrong?

What do you do when you're emotions feel like they're swallowing you up...?

I'm a total mess right now...tryin to hold myself together on the outside...

Feel like going away for a while, clearing my head, coming back to it with fresh eyes...

My heart feels like it's being squeezed, and I dunno how to loosen the grip....Or if i even want to.


Confusion is a bitch.

Peace...

"Have an affair, act like an adult for once"...

Now before I get into this blog ( cuz it has the potential to get long) I just wanna say I don't endorse infidelity...I'm just playin "Devil's Advocate" on this topic. I've had a few convo's this week all separate and all on this topic and I found it pretty interesting...


The way of the world/our society is monogamy. 1 guy, 1 girl...yadda yadda etc etc...As u make the transition from "talkin" to "dating" to "that's my man/girl" to "wifey", to "engaged" to "married"...The monogamy requirement increases. My first question to my blog followers is...How realistic do u think this notion is? I mean before you answer that...Everyone knows that as people get older and grow they change as people. So keep that in mind as u respond.

My first convo on the topic was in NY with my boy...He's got a girl he's feelin pretty hard (though he doesn't wanna admit it) But He was kinda doin his own thing before he met her. You know how that goes. Anyhoo...He's slowing down a bit since he's feelin "the new chick" but he's had these on going "arrangements" prior to gettin with her. So his statement to me was..."I'm always gonna have those "arrangements" with said women, even if "new chick" became my girl.

So of course I was curious..

So you have an..."understanding" with these other women (2 to be exact) That it's not a relationship thing..it's really just a sexual "understanding". You'll have "new chick" at home. That's your main...but if one of ur "ahem..."understanding's" call...then its cool. No harm no foul. (to him)

Now he's not married, not engaged, really just dating/entering a relationship...But of course you KNOW "new chick" isn't aware of these "understanding's". And although I didn't ask, I'm sure the concept of her having some "understandings" of her own is out of the question...unless she keeps that to herself...lol

So moving on....Situation 2..My boy actually called and woke me up this morning cuz he said he had a question. So He was having a convo with the fellas and they were basically talkin about that point when u decide to propose. They said that since youre committing yourself to one 'ahem vagina for the rest of your life...all bets are off right up until the wedding. So basically they're saying...get all the ass u can get til you say "i do". Cuz once u say "i do" its a done deal...

Now this was also kinda interesting to me...My boy's question to me ...was "do women go on a spree of their own prior to the wedding" I told him in my opinion no...Once we decide we want to MARRY you, We don't view it as "one penis forever". (Well not ALL of us) Men view it was a life sentence, while women tend to view it more as a new beginning (in my opinion...)

So he was really like "wow" i thought both parties involved were going on (his words) "a fuckin spree" before the wedding...I was like um...no. Gross.

So he said ok, he was takin this info back to the fellas because according to him...they felt the women / brides-to-be were doin the same thing! and he's be callin me again later..( so there may be a part 2)


Now situation number 3 is from yet another convo....In a nutshell,(cuz this is gettin long) guy likes girl girl is kinda feelin guy...both are in "situations" as T.I put it lol. But neither care. Once again another "understanding" i guess...

So i guess I'm wondering how realistic the concept of "fidelity" is anymore. With so many "open marriages" arrangements" situations" etc etc it's seeming like the whole world is becoming alot more accepting of the "don't ask don't tell" approach to relationships.

Will & Jada are rumored to have one...and regardless of how much you dispute it, i think EVERYONE has a certain someone in their life...where...relationship or not...If THAT person wanted it....they could get it. I'm just sayin...



Now I do remember back in the day when I played those kinda games...(you all have so don't judge me). You know the stuff u see in old music videos...lol

You're out with ur dude and u see side dude...you give each other that "understanding" nod, cuz he's out with his chick too...

So many artists have written about this, (Alicia Key's "Mr. Man", Pleasure P "Boyfriend #2", Tweet "Call Me") I could go on...but u get me... so many videos depict this scene...just makes me wonder...

So feedback people...once again let me say ..I"m a HOPELESS romantic and kinda old school in alot of ways when it comes to relationships...so I'm just wondering...In this day and age am I the one who's out of touch...?

Deauces!