PSA

A man is only gonna work as hard to gain your attention as you MAKE him work...So don't get mad at HIM for it when you know you didn't establish yourself from the START...

If you were letting him call sayin "I'm on the way" without him even askin if you were busy first (cuz u were just glad he wanted to see you period)....Don't get mad that now he just assumes poppin up on you is cool.

Don't get mad that he's callin you in the middle of the night (booty call hours) now...When you were MORE than willing to pick up the phone WHENEVER he called before (cuz u were glad he was even callin u period)

Don't get mad that he just wants to come chill at the crib rather than go out now...when before he used to ask what you wanted to do and your answer was always "i don't care as long as I'm with u" (um...yeah)

I could go on...But my point is...Ladies step YOUR game up!...Don't blame 'ole boy for treating you the way u been LETTING him...thats truth. A man is ALWAYS gonna do what you LET him do...(or what you allow him to get away with )

I've been guilty of this...EVERY woman has...But you grow up, look back and CORRECT that situation....

The way I see it now...is don't come at me half assed and figure that's good enough (or ur FINE enough) that halfway effort will suffice...it wont...(and you'll get ur feelings hurt)

Don't call to say you're on the way when I didn't ASK you to come over, Don't ask me to chill and have NOTHING planned for us to do...

Don't call me at 2am (to see what I'm doing...*blank-stare*) When at 2pm you're not a "phone person"...

Thats all I have to say about that (Forrest Gump voice)

Deuces!

Texting Killed Romance

Smh...It's become so second nature it's like...we don't even THINK on it much really.
There's so much said through text that is just accepted like it's OK. But truly A LOT shouldn't be left to texting...I need to HEAR "I love you"/"I miss you" not read it on my screen...it's sweet either way but there's nothing like hearing that voice SAY those words...

I'll admit, I'm guilty of this too...and the more I think about it, the more it disturbs me a lil how technology has taken over such a major part of our lives...

I posted about this previously..But when's the last time you WROTE a love letter or recieved one?

When's the last time you called to say "i love u baby" or "i miss you" in the course of a day...rather than shoot a quick text?

Old school romance will always win out with me...And It's almost sad that as technology is always moving forward we take for granted and lose some of the charm of doing it the "old" way...

I miss a random phone call to say I love you...But I can't count my "i love u" texts...Something's wrong with that picture...

Sometimes I wish I really could just take it back in time to doing it the way we used to...even just for a weekend. A phone call at work just because he wanted to hear your voice.

This shyt's almost makin me kinda sad the more i type/think...I mean does convenience always need to win out?

It takes 15 seconds to send a text, and less than 2 minutes to dial a number get an answer and say "i love u"

If you knew you'd never see someone again would u want that last i love u to come from something other than your own mouth? Maybe I"m being too deep...But im just sayin...

There are soooo many people in the world that can say "If I had only..."

I never want to have THAT regret when it comes to someone I love...and technology (which is inevitable..) Has just opened up the door a lil wider for us to lose touch with the people MOST important to us. And the funny thing is we seem to think with emails, texts, laptops, blackberrys' iphones...we think we're MORE connected now. So untrue. I can go DAYS/WEEKS without hearing your voice, but feel like I haven't missed a beat cuz my inbox is full...thats so...WRONG.

"sigh..

Maybe I"m just speaking for myself...But give me a phone call over a text any day. Give me a hand written letter over an email ANY day...

I'mma stop before I depress myself. But I know on MY end of the world...some stuff is gonna have to change.

....Peace

WTF!! (a.k.a Young boy chronicles vol. 1)

Ok so like...I'm mad as hell...

My LITTLE homegirl (shes 16) gets a gift today from her boyfriend (he's 18). This lil dude gave her a watch...(thats not the good part)..He took the battery out before he gave it to her...

He had stopped it at exactly 8:29..When she asked him why...He told her 8:29 is when they first started going out (august 29th for u slow ones). So he gave her a watch with the time stopped at 8:29 so that whenever she looked at it she'd think of him...

OK ..WHAT THHHHHHEEEE HELL Grown Men?! Step ya game up like ASAP!!!

This lil dude is either A. Creative as HELL
B. Reading from the ULTIMATE handbook of Pimpin
C. Got one hell of an older brother , cousin, friend etc...that put him on...
SOMETHING!

I really think young dudes still have to WORK hard for theirs...Older dudes kinda...quit tyring as much...(not ALL) don't bite my head off...I'm just saying...

I'm a HOPELESS romantic...but i TRULY feel as men get older they don't feel like they have to try as hard the longer we're with them...I could be wrong...and I'm not generalizing...Smh.

I'm happy for my babygirl, cuz ya'll KNOW she's gassed right about now...lol


At 18 lil dude knows a lil creativity can go a loooooooooooooooooooong way.

Try it.

The end!

Smh...

Clown ass dudes...Words of Warning...

Don't assume that because I don't SAY much, that I don't KNOW much...

I see ur bullshyt pimp.

Deuces.

A wise man once told me...

Sometimes u just sit back and realize u really are blessed to have certain ppl in your life...
I haven't found a description yet that can do him justice...

Him : Miss u

Me: Miss u 2. My mood just switched up, so I could use a hug. Sorry If I'm being real short.

Him: Need to talk?

Me: No I'm mad and frustrated and ur driving. I'm cool

Him: U sure. I'm here for u.

Me: Yeah I'm just real annoyed and mad that I'm even annoyed. So I'm just waiting for it to pass. Truthfully the person isn't even worth the efforts.

Him: Alright

Me: Thanks tho

Him: Ur always worth my effort

Me: Thanks. Dunno why that made me almost want to cry.

Him: It's a lot in life to know at least 1 person is always there 4 u.

Me: yeah, that's tru



Yeah...I'm lucky...Real lucky....
I'll find the right words...one day...

Deuces.

Yeah...

"I restore myself when I'm alone" ~Marilyn Monroe~





Got some much needed "alone" coming to me tomorrow,...Thank God for small Favors...

Peace.

Insanity...

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
~ Albert Einstein~

I think I've been "insane" for too long.

Smh...

Deuces!

Smart, Pretty B!tch...

It's often just enough to be with someone. I don't need to touch them. Not even talk. A feeling passes between you both. You're not alone.

~Marilyn Monroe~

"sigh...

Peace.

Someone....PLEASE!

Find me Solo's SHOESSSSS!!!!!




Who are they by...how much are they...( is there a knock-off/look-a-like...*u know there always is*)

Thanks!

TheEnd.

Work Bitch!

I LOVE someone thats SICK on the dancefloor...and If you're not familiar with Luam...GET FAMILIAR....

She's ill...

Here's a clip of her killin my fav Trina joint.."I got a bottle"

Enjoy...



(She's on the right in the orange pants...Then in the middle with the white tee/grey sweats)










Deuces!