Friday, October 8, 2010

Falling Stars...

This makes me sad...Not cuz she was some great talent or some amazing beauty, but just because I always found her cute. Natina Reed from the R&B group Blaque (Founded by TLC's Left Eye R.I.P) also acted in Bring it On.

I mean celebs on any scale are essentially just people like you and me, but I guess when they fall it always makes me wonder what went wrong? Traveling the world, albums, movies, awards, money...

I guess from my point of view I don't see how/'d let that happen. But thats just me. Either way I came across this article and it really made bothered me...I couldn't tell you has me feelin some kind of way...maybe cuz she's just my age...maybe cuz she's got a baby...I don't know...But I had to post.

All info found on

BOSSIP has exclusively learned that Natina Reed from Left Eye’s (R.I.P.) R&B girl group Blaquewas arrested in Georgia recently for cocaine possession and prostitution.

Natina Reed, 29, formerly of the group Blaque, was arrested on April 13, 2010 in Gwinnett County, Georgia and charged with cocaine possession, disorderly conduct, and prostitution.

Used to love this long...I know the story isn't new...but it's new to me. Hope she's doing better and get's it together fast if she already hasn't...don't need another Maiya Campbell story...


Tuesday, July 27, 2010

You kiss your mother with that mouth?


Dirty Talk, Pillow Talk, Phone Sex...

Whatever you want to call it....are you into it? I gotta be honest, I wasn't at first...but then again I was also the little girl that thought BJ's we gross too...(so not the case ;-) But I digress...

Some people have it, and some people don't when it comes to turning me on with just your words. That could be due to not knowing what to say...or even being uncomfortable with the idea of telling someone exactly what you'd like to do to them. For me especially...Don't be a chatterbox, but the right thing can have me... :-)

It definitely doesn't replace the real thing, but it can be a good substitute when distance or circumstance is a factor....When your guy's at work a dirty text/vm can have him rushing home to see

Besides I think it keeps things kind of interesting. I know I felt funny as hell at first but once i realized what a turn on it was...i was all in...

Where do you want my hands? What are you gonna do to me when you see me? You want to do it where?

Ease into it at first...try something simple and work your way up...or try reading this...

When a few choice words can end here..., how can you not?

So ladies, you talk dirty?

Why or why not?



I've recently discovered since I'm freelancing now, and home alot more...I'm obsessed with bathrooms. I have 2 in my home.

Now when I say obsessed I mean I sat back and took a look at both and the bathroom has to be once of my favorite "set the scene" rooms....Steamy shower sex....Yes please!

But you can't have the sexy shower this...

When I move I swear the first rooms I need to see in my next place are the bathrooms...The right enviroment is very necessary...I wish I could take my current bathrooms with me, lol.

Here are a few i found extra dope.

So many possibilities with those ledges..

Goes without saying...

My fav by FAR...Can u imagine layin on it with the water raining down...?!

So yeah....I'm hooked on bathrooms

A sexy outdoor scene would even be kinda cool...

I'm not only partial to showers, the right bathtub would have its possibilities too...

Yup...just thought I'd share..

Peace. ;-)

Saturday, July 24, 2010

I just wanna be successful....

"I want the money, money and the cars
Cars and the clothes...The ho's..
I suppose.
I just wanna be, I just wanna be successful...."

I was watching an old episode of ANTM (America's Next Top Model..) It was the season with Eva. She was always one of my favs...but anyway. couldnt help but notice the difference between pre-money Eva and post-money Eva. But then again thats really the case with just about ALL celebs.

Now to be clear I'm not referring to how money changes you as a person...thats a whole different topic altogether. I"m just talking about the superficial...Here are some examples...

Eva Then...

Eva Now...

Princess Super Ci.... Then.

And Now..

And trust me I'm not saying this is a bad thing...I just always find the transition that comes with money interesting...

La Lopez...the fly girl. :-)

And Now...

You ever wonder what the money makin YOU would look like? I didn't til I started payin attention to the difference. They are all good examples cuz they were beautiful before...but post celeb is just...different...

And one more...

I've ALWAYS thought Jada was gorgeous...

But Mrs. Pinkett Smith Now...

Is stunning...

And as always I could go on but this already pretty pic heavy.

If you could shop the way you wanted to, or as often as you wanted to...If money wasnt as much of an object as it is now..What would you look like?

When I get there I'll let ya'll know ;-)


Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Shorty got skills...Shorty for gifts...(NSFW)

Ya'll know what I mean. Ladies we can be some cocky S.O.B's when it comes to our sex game in certain areas. I've been guilty of it, not gonna lie. We talk...sometimes I think we're worse than guys. (I'm sorry fells its true) We can be just as graphic with our girls, just as raw. We too have tips, ticks, etc etc that we can pull out our hat when we wanna go for the gold.

If you can think we got "bomb-head" why can't we admit to ourselves that "hell yeah we do" lol

I KNOW what I'm good at in the bedroom. When i want his toes to curl or his eyes to roll back, or his breath to quicken to know EXACTLY what to do. So ladies what are your skills? Lol. Fella's what is your girl bomb at?! Can she ride a mean one,

Maybe she's flexible as hell...

Maybe she can just TAKE it like a champ...Even I'm impressed with THIS...

What tricks can YOU pull out the bag? Fella's maybe ya'll have some tricks WE don't' know about, or should I say can't always SEE ;-) .

Just doin this post has me wanting to add some more "skills" to my repertoire. lol :-)

(Sorry if this was kinda pornish...but its like that

So share... ; -)


Non- Barbie Movement.

I'm, one of those people that falls into the category of "I don't care one way or the other" when it comes it Nicki Minaj. There are songs of hers that are catchy that I do find myself singing along in the car...then there are songs that I cant STAND to listen to. The song below is one of my fav's of Ms. Minaj's. I really like....and upon seeing the video I'm like WTF...She looks gorgeous! WHYYYY not look like this more often Ms. Minaj?

Why do this...

When you can look like this?!

I'm not gonna lie, I was STUNNED when I saw the still for this vid. I mean she's a pretty girl, but she spends so much time looking like a cartoon character you tend to forget.

I approve Ms. Minaj. Keep the look.


Thursday, July 15, 2010

I think I luv her...

One word...DOPE.

This is the kinda of stuff that gets me wishin for city nights, candle light, hips, lips, n- fingertips....

"sigh...Her voice is so pretty makes the words come off totally different. I've listened to "Suffocate" a million times. Was my fav J. Holiday song. But something about her version makes me want to put on something sexy and cater to him. Or just have a night with myself...and the music. But I'm starting to ramble. Check out her youtube chanel for some more cover's she's done. (goes to buy an acoustic guitar)


Def feeling some type of way right now... ; - ) (I'm such a girl...)


Friday, July 9, 2010



By: Maya Angelou

A hater is someone who is jealous and envious and spends all their time trying to make you look small so they can look tall.
They are very negative people to say the least. Nothing is ever good enough!
When you make your mark, you will always attract some haters…
That’s why you have to be careful with whom you share your blessings and your dreams, because some folk can’t handle seeing you blessed…
It’s dangerous to be like somebody else… If God wanted you to be like somebody else, He would have given you what He gave them! Right?
You never know what people have gone through to get what they have…
The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory, but they don’t know my story…
If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, you can rest assured that the water bill is higher there too!
We’ve all got some haters among us!
Some people envy you because you can:
a) Have a relationship with God
b) Light up a room when you walk in
c) Start your own business
d) Tell a man / woman to hit the curb (if he / she isn’t about the right thing)
e) Raise your children without both parents being in the home

Haters can’t stand to see you happy.
Haters will never want to see you succeed.
Most of our haters are people who are supposed to be on our side.
How do you handle your undercover haters?

You can handle these haters by:
1. Knowing who you are & who your true friends are *(VERY IMPORTANT!!)

2. Having a purpose to your life: Purpose does not mean having a job. You can have a job and still be unfulfilled. A purpose is having a clear sense of what God has called you to be. Your purpose is not defined by what others think about you.

3. By remembering what you have is by divine prerogative and not human manipulation.

Fulfill your dreams! You only have one life to live…when its your time to leave this earth, you ‘want’ to be able to say, ‘I’ve lived my life and fulfilled ‘my’ dreams,… Now I’m ready to go HOME!

When God gives you favor, you can tell your haters, ‘Don’t look at me…Look at Who is in charge of me…

I came across this on tumblr and I read alot of Maya Angelou so I dont know how I missed this one. But it was RIGHT ON TIME....I needed it.


Monday, June 28, 2010

Say Aaahh...(again)

"The drinks start pouring,
And my speech start slurring,
Everybody start looking real good."

I'm not some kind of drunk...but i DO enjoy a social drink. My fav drink will switch from month to month...but lately I've come across some alcohol I haven't tried that i have to admit I'm curious about...

Rain Vodka. This is completely ORGANIC Vodka...I raised an eyebrow. It's supposed to be pretty good too. I'm gonna have to give it a try.

Crystal Head Vodka (By Dan Akroyd...O_o. I know...that's what IIIIII said)
The bottle is cool, lol. That's half of why I like it. But the reviews on it are actually good. Eff a Ciroc gimmie some Crystal Head! (I'mma say that next time I go to a bar lol)

Vampyre Vodka. Developed in England for the distinguished Vodka drinker with a sense of adventure, is what the description says..This is def...different. I'll try almost anything once...Never seen red vodka before either...hmmmmm...

Bu-tay (yep, that's pronounced Boo- tay' like a big ol' butt), Truly nothing TOO curious about this one other than the name....I like ordering silly named shit at a restaurant. I think it makes the waiter/waitress uncomfortable.... especially when they have to go repeat my order back to the bartender. (Yeah it's dumb...simple pleasures right?)

And last one for the night.......

Thas right...Bacon!...Well Bakon...It's really bacon flavored vodka. I have NO clue as to what you'd mix this with or even what it'd really taste like...But

Disclaimer: I'm in no way partial to vodka...It was coinky dink that they all WERE vodka lol.


His and Hers...

Shawty play the piano me I play the white keys,
Shawty from the south, oh, i think she like me,
Shawty like Pac, me Big Poppa,
screaming hit em up, I’m screaming who shot ya,
I’m on that red wine, shawty like white,
same sh-t different toilet,
we both getting nice,
me I’m from the apple which means I’m the Mac,
She’s a PC, she lives in my lap.

How fly would it be....for you an me... match like this...

He match my fly...SO sexy...I'd LOVE to roll out on some grown shit with my man. Or truthfully even on some casual lounge flow. Wrists matchin YASSSSS!!...I can dream, and I'm really not a watch wearing chick...but these are fly. I remember waaaaaay back when Me and my dude at the time would do the matchin Timbs thing...(I'm from NYC don't judge me) This is on a whole 'nother (yes I said nother....and ya'll say it too eff u!) level...SO SEXY!


Body, Soul, Mind, Spirit...

We should hold ourselves accountable for not demanding a higher standard of excellence. We reward the mediocre. Maybe that’s an issue with ourselves, being drawn to mediocrity because its relatable, for people feeling mediocre. In that case, step up your own excellence and then want it to be reflected in all around you.
Jean Grae

I've been in a really strange place for the past few weeks, coming off an emotional return to ATL from NYC...Quitting my job and deciding to become an entrepreneur, and then off to L.A for a week....All in less than a 3 week time frame was more than a little jarring...That's the short version...But L.A in a nutshell has become my second love...first being NYC...They're running pretty close right now. But before I start to ramble...The above quote fit a corner of whats been swimming around my head for most of the month of June. I'm transitioning, and within that I cant always expect to be understood...(I've stopped trying). I can be a lonely feeling when no one really "gets" you...but I digress...

The people I'm allowing into my life at this stage in the game is changing...and quickly. I used to blame it on my dwindling patience for stupidity...But I'm seeing now that I'm holding myself to such a standard and I'm forcing, pushing, willing myself towards excellence...that any less surrounding me just isn't going to work.

The mediocrity isn't "relatable" to me's not good enough. Excellence is all I'm willing to accept. Be it in my personal life, career, my spiritual life, .... How did I accept less? It's not even fathomable anymore.

This is on top of the mountain I climbed in L.A, I took this pic once i reached the top.....symbolic for alot of reasons....The world is mine...Keep up with me or keep away...


Thursday, June 24, 2010

The King...

OK so this will be a mad random quick lil post, but I was havin a convo with someone tryin to come up with my top 5 fav MJ songs...and it's damn near

off the top of my head in no specific order its...

1. Rock with You
2.Lady in my Life
3.You Rock My World
4. Human Nature
5. Heaven Can Wait

But there's a million other's i LOOOOOOOVE Smooth Criminal, The Way You Make me Feel,Remember the Time, Who's loving You, how do you pic just 5?! I'm just lookin for some feedback...what are some of your fav's?

Monday, June 14, 2010

Follow up/ Fun Fact...

After my post about Great Dick...I found this on Blogxilla. I'm just gonna re-post it here...

New twist on things...

Ever wonder why some women get attached so quickly after doing the dirty deed? Why they always want to cuddle afterward? Why they start calling and texting frequently, begging to see you again and again? Sure, your pipe game possibly could have been that good, but it probably has more to do with the powerful hormone known as oxytocin and less to do with the power of your personal magic wand.

It’s been said frequently that women can’t separate sex from their emotions, and the truth is, they can’t–and it’s not their fault. This oxytocin hormone is produced naturally in the brain and released as a response to many different situations. These situations include skin-to-skin contact, uterine or cervical stimulation during sex, nipple stimulation in lactating women and as a result of a baby moving down the birth canal during labor. Oxytocin is also released during orgasm, which causes that warm and fuzzy feeling and deepens the feelings of attachment, making couples feel closer to one another. The hormone also increases the desire to be touched further, which makes it likely that one will want to be pleasured again.

Oxytocin gets even more powerful in couples who have frequent sex. According to Binghamton University psychology professor Diane Witt, the release of oxytocin can be classically conditioned, and after constant sex with the same partner, just seeing that person may release more of the hormone, making you desire the person even more. And while oxytocin is also released in men, the effect is more powerful in women because it is combined with estrogen, another strong hormone.

So guys, now that you know it is only natural for a woman to become clingy after sex, you might want to give her a break before you start labeling her as some kind of crazy. However ladies, even if you can’t control your hormones, you can still control your behavior, and some of you might want to work on that.

Now this is interesting...but it DOES make alot of sense....Ladies this dosent give us the green lite to act a pure fool...but it does shed a lil light. I know a few ego's that'd be a lil damaged to know this lil


Tell em that it's human nature...

By far one of my fav MJ songs...But I found this on World Star. He dose it JUSTICE...their will never me another MJ but dammit if he dosent sound JUST like him when he sings this....

BTW That's Tia and Tamara Mowry's little brother...ya'll remember that show Smart


Friday, June 11, 2010

So good it'll hurt your feelings...

And I'm talkin about sex, dick, penis, wang, pipe, tool, whatever you wanna call it. It all means the same damn thing. Everyone has had it...STD...(sexually transmitted dumbness...) That dick so good you turn into a pure fool. Lemmie explain....You ever have that person that you have insane chemistry with? I mean it's in the eye contact...the conversation, so when you get behind closed explodes. Now not necessarily throwing clothes off and knocking over lamps (although that's all good too...) But I'm talkin about that slow burn...the kind that simmers. Starts with a kiss, the kind that grows deeper...lights off, clothes to follow...and that slow ,deliberate ,considerate passionate, intense ....dick....

I've had it...and it's nothing to play with. It's like when you have a pot on the stove. Think boiling rice ( for those of u who can cook...) You put in the water, then the rice, turn the flame on and let it're supposed to let the rice boil, let the water drain down...not low enough so u burn it, but juuuuuuuuuuuuust low enough so it's perfect. But if you're not watching'll boil over...or you're gonna burn up the whole thing

Yup...and it's deep. (no pun, lol) The inaudible mumbles, the hands, the kisses, the heavy breathing...ALL of that is the recipe for it and if you've had it you love it and hate it all at once.

See now when I say... act dumb i mean by the time all is said and done...You're texting him (random bullshit tryin to be conversational) just so he texts You're thinkin about when you'll see him again, you re thinkin about the "next time", you re remembering what was said, how it felt. Is he thinkin about me as much as I'm thinkin about him? Does he miss me too? I got a minute to text him...he doesn't?

Then you get it wasn't all that for him? How come in not on his mind? Is he with someone else right now?

You go through amazing heartache, sadness, anger , paranoia...etc etc...(when about 99.9% of the time...he's feelin u back...We just forget men don't react the same way women do)

So by this point it's eff playin it cool, Great dick will make you go harder than you've ever gone You play the..."I wont text him" game...then every damn time you get one you KNOW it's him..I mean it has to be, or you re picking up the phone to look at it like u MISSED the text alert somehow, you haven't spoken in a full what....10 hours?! Lmaoooo...I can laugh cuz I been there, but when you're caught up in the great dick aftermath, ain't SHIT funny...

And God forbid you send a text that didn't get a response...the damn world is ending! CURSE THAT BLINKING RED LIGHT ON YOUR BLACKBERRY THAT WONT EFFIN BLINK! never outgrow the effects of great dick...I'm sorry to tell ya. It's dope and it sucks all at once...

smh....don't feel bad though ladies...dudes can get caught up in great head/great ass

But we're not talkin about them this post.

But point blank, Great dick will make you act dumb. Fact!

It's OK...if the chemistry was genuine he's not gonna forget it so just aren't like us. Don't be a bugaboo...(it's hard) and don't over think it if u wanna drop a hello text cool...relax and breathe...and know it happens to the best of us. lol. Be confident that you left a lasting impression on him as deep as the one he left one you. (shits easier said than done) Or just stay


Friday, May 28, 2010

I'm Late with it..

But I wasn't in a hurry to watch the vid or listen to the song especially when I found out Ms. Keri Baby was the leading lady...but today I was off and took a minute to peep it...

So I have to admit it caught me off guard, not what I was expecting...and it even made a tear fall...(yeah I'm a girl... :-p )

But if you haven't seen it here you go..Trey Songz... "Your Side of the Bed"


Wednesday, May 26, 2010

"Good" Hair?

OK so this has been on my mind and quite present in my life as a mixed chick (Both parents are Guyanese which is in South America riiiiiight by Venezuela. Mommy is black actually pretty dark skinned too. Dad is 1/2 Portuguese, and 1/2 Indian looks like a white man IMO, but yadda yadda yadda. To me I look black, but I'm mixed)

Anyway after a long convo with a friend today on the topic of hair, I felt the need to blog. Now my friend Terrye is very dark skinned, (half of me has always envied pretty dark skin) I'm more of a caramel/french vanilla depending on the season...but I digress...

She recently started a new job and for the past 3 days in a row her hair has been the topic of much office debate, and just today a full out argument. She's black not mixed in any way to her knowledge, but her hair is naturally curly. It's not long, it's not thick, it's just curly. The kind of curly that when it's wet it looks like a jheri curl and when u wet it u can slick it back.

A co-worker asked her today..."What kind of gel do you use in your hair to slick it like that?"
She said "I don't use any gel, I just wet my hair real quick in the bathroom..." (as she was walking back to her desk.)

The co-worker stops...rolls her eyes...and says "Yeah right, you don't have to lie. If you didn't want to tell me just say so"

So Terrye being the person that she is asked the woman..."Why would I lie about some gel, and I left my purse at my desk, I have no gel my hair is just wet"

The woman responds with "Oh well then you're not black then...OK"

Terrye was like..."wtf, I'm not black cuz I put water on my hair and it curls!?"

The co-worker "Well maybe you're black but just mixed..."

So in short .... I don't get it. When was the law passed that black women cant have hair? Or better yet "Good" or "manageable" hair and not be mixed or something...

2ND story...I was in the beauty supply store yesterday...I was looking for some wax for my edges...(thts irrelevant to the story Anyway the girl behind the counter apparently thought I was shopping for hair. My own hair is natural, no relaxer or anything, I've had relaxers, weaves, braids, but I prefer wearing my own hair best, It's not short though, so sometimes it's easier to just not mess with it. I had it in a ponytail this particular day cuz I just didn't give a F*ck. I was hot, and since my hair isn't chemically treated when I sweat it frizzes up. So the girl comes down and starts lookin at my hair, telling my friend about the color and texture as far as matching up a weave (I was on the phone so I wasnt payin her too much attention) But I heard her ask..."Is that her natural hair...?"
Me: O_0
My friend: "Um...yes that's hers..."
Her: "oh.... and walks away"

So I'm like...ok wtf?!

Why can't it be my hair? Now I'm not gonna be unrealistic like I don't know WHY she asked...
I saw the movie, the amount of $$$ spent on hair that isnt natural to make it LOOK natural is insane. But weaves, extensions whatever... didn't originate with Black women...White women perfected extensions EONS ago...But no one will stop a white woman and say "Is that your natural hair" It's just not as common. I mean Jessica Simpson has her own LINE of extensions, Kim Zolciack from the Real Housewives of Atlanta has a wig line...Kim Kardashian ADMITTEDLY wears extensions. But No one will look at any of them...(except maybe Kim Z.) Like "Bitch Quit Lying" if they say that's their own hair.

A black woman with curly hair be it long or short, or un-relaxed or even permmed hair that carries any length is automatically looked at like...hmmmmmmm.....

Kenya Moore is a perfect example...(and i chose this pic cuz it's sexy as hell :-D

Now yes this is her own hair. Do I know what she uses or if it's relaxed no I don't. But she's a black woman, with some beautiful she must be mixed!...right?! Smh...

Keisha Knight Pulliam...

Now ya'll have seen her grown up with all that thick bushy hair...naturally hers...

And the whole web was hollerin about Oprah's natural hair pic that she dropped...

I just don't get it...

Help me understand black women? Is it a competition thing? I've even had friends...once they see my hair out...say "Oh you have long hair for a black girl, ...oh thats right you're mixed though"

What if I wasn't?! If I hadn't told you i was you wouldnt know. I'm not walking around looking like Freddie from "A Different World"

It's become such a "thing" that Tyra Banks had to make a damn announcement about the "self loathing" going on among black women and her determination to wear her natural hair now...

My followers don't tend to comment, so I'm not expecting too much feedback, But I had to ask...


Saturday, May 22, 2010

Spring Shoegasm..

Ok so i'll admit I've been on a slight shoe buying binge the last couple I'm gonna share my most recent pairs just and cuz I'm slightly bored today so it's gonna be a random kind of blog post.

I swear a dope pair of high heels is like INSTANT sexy...(pls be aware that some of these pics do them NO justice...

wasnt til i did this post that I realized I"m stuck on neutrals right now minus that first pair. I guess they work with everything. So far I've only worn the first ones and the last ones...

DYING to wear the middle 2...maybe in a week or so when I touch down in nyc. :-)

Serious shoe fetish...I can admit tht.