OK...so head, blow jobs, oral sex,knob-slobbin and whatever colorful titles u have for doing it...it all means the same thing. Suckin Dick.
So what I"m wondering in 2009 (after a few convo's with a few friends...) is...Is this still taboo?!
I mean really?! IS it?! My boy even asked me jokin...are there still girls that don't give head?!
That's like looking for a unicorn...or is it?
Personally I'm grown and ashamed of NOTHING I do. Within the 4 walls of my relationship with a person I know I love. His pleasure is my priority...so all bets are off. Game ON when the lights go out. (or stay on whatever the preference....but I digress)
There are still women in 2009 that turn their noses up and give the "wtf ...eeww" face when the topic of head comes up. Quit actin like a kid!
Now A. If you'll let him lick you walls dry but wont return the favor ur selfish and trust that wont happen for too much longer.
And you'll be sitting there mad as hell...lol
B. If you've never done it , HOW do you know you don't like it?
C. (Assuming you're doing it right) Once you see the look on his face (or hear the sounds ur causing a grown man to make) How can u NOT wanna do something that'll make his toes curl?
Don't be a selfish lover is my point. Now granted...They're men...amazingly so that DON'T like head (yeah i know)So it's not for everyone clearly. And there are just as many women out there that just don't do it well/correctly. Therefore don't get the desired results, so they don't see the point. ALSO understandable.
I've heard everything from it "tasting bad" to "feelin nasty in your mouth" to "gaggin on it" If you're a novice no ones askin u to swallow or deep throat it or any of that. But a real man that know you're tryin to please him and are puttin his pleasure before your own will stop at NOTHING to make sure you're taken care of...TRUST!
(I'm not talkin any dude on the street, but your man...you know. The one that LOVES you.)
So my questions to my female readers is whats your viewpoint on head? Giving and receiving.
Gentlemen whats your view on women that don't "ahem...return the favor?
I have a co-worker that's 32 that has NEVER given head. But she's in love now...head over heels. And stated that with THIS man, she'll stop at nothing to please him. I give her credit for that.
Of course there are exceptions to this, so don't flood the comment board with dumb stuff like "well he doesn't do it back"
Use ur head ladies...(literally) lmaoooo.